Make a great first impression!

Small things that can make a big difference...

Always try to be respectful of others. One easy way to do that is to extend your hand, look the other person in the eye, give them a firm and confident handshake and smile. Follow each one of those steps and you will have achieved the perfect handshake.

Another way to show respect is to tell others how much you appreciate them. You may be thinking positive things but make a point of expressing them. It can be to your friends, family your teachers, coaches or boss. If you appreciate them, try to remember to tell them once in a while. It can be something as simple as "I'm glad you're my friend. I feel I can tell you anything and you never judge me", "Coach, I really learned a lot from you this year. Thanks." Or "Mom or Dad I think you're great." It doesn't have to be complicated, just sincere.

Never forget to say thank you. Going out of your way once in a while to send someone a note to say thanks is especially respectful. Maybe you went on vacation and someone let you stay at his or her house or your friend’s mom invited you for a great dinner. Those are great times to send a note or at least say thanks. Or maybe you had a teacher or coach who really made a difference in your life or way of thinking. That’s another good reason to send a note, even if it’s a while since you have even seen them. Think about how good it feels when someone says thanks to you.

Try to look your best. The time you take to look good also shows respect. Styles may change with every generation, but cleanliness and neatness show the other person you cared about them enough to look your best.

Preparation and hard work demonstrate respect. That may include getting your homework done, practicing for the big match or game, learning your lines, or memorizing your songs for your band. The extra effort demonstrates respect.

Always remember to follow through on your promises. Do what you say you are going to do. If you said you would call, show up or help out – do it. If it’s impossible or needs to be rescheduled, give the other person a call. That also shows respect.

Always tell the truth. Even if you made a mistake or did something wrong it’s the only thing to do.

The bottom line is that you get out of life what you put into it; and in time and you receive what you give. The only person you fool, if you don’t always try your best, is yourself. Excuses can be plentiful but they are not for you. You are positive, respectful, and honest.  Adding in a great handshake will always put you ahead of the pack.